Category Archives: war of the sexes



“Nigerian Senate votes down gender equality bill due to ‘religious beliefs’

The bill was designed to stop the ‘inhuman, humiliating or degrading treatment’ of women”
News headline from The Independent

My Response on fb!!

My goodness!! Adjectives and words!!! Lesson 101 a woman and man may be “different” gender that doesn’t equate to “inequality” Right I think I need to go and became a lawyer too so I can simply and plainly explain this!!! For the record, I will say it again WOMAN and MEN are EQUAL and DIFFERENT gender!!!!!!!

Lara Rose

Even better phrased “WOMAN and MEN are EQUAL albeit DIFFERENT gender!!!!!!!”

My algebraic response:

If A = C
If B = C

Then simple algebra shows that:

A = B period!!!

Thus if

If Woman XX = HUMAN



Seriously, why is this so hard to comprehend?!!!

A baby is born, on upon physical examination the announcement, “it’s a girl!” is made!

Just because a Woman has a vagina and a Man has a penis which signifiesย  “gender” at birth, does that make one gender less human?

Isn’t it a fact that both gender are equally entitled to the same basic need of oxygen, food, shelter, protection, water, love, independence, empowerment, etc, etc!!

Does a baby girl also not equally learn to crawl, walk, run like a baby boy!

What religious misinterpretation is being used here?!!


ยฉ Lara Rose 2016


Swirling vortex of entropy!!

WP_20160127_3089.jpgMen Shortage: Eritrea Govt. Forces Men To Marry At Least Two Wives Or Face Imprisonment

I just read the headline above written by the online editor,
posted on FB with a comment, “will this work in Nigeria?”

Bullshit!! Any excuse for perverted men and governments!! I’m disgusted, outraged, right enough is enough!!!!! ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜’

Seriously, are some men so conceited, desperate and perverse that they always feel the need to control and subjugate women?! Always using excuse after excuse?!!

Is there ever going to be a world where the child bearers of this flipping planet will ever be respected equally to men?!

What is this obsession with some men and the so called, “biological needs” to quote the man whose role was to protect his daughters but instead did the polar opposite! They’ll be wanting to forcibly marry their daughters next!!!๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ 

To quote Sheldon from Big Bang Theory, “a swirling vortex of entropy” can be used to describe the chaos and turmoil within this ever raging war of the sexes!!

If this is a joke, like Aprils fool or whatever, it’s not funny!!


….shame on you Africa!!! ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž Laye yi!!

ยฉ Lara Rose 2016


All things can be beautiful and bright!

WP_20160114_7321.jpgAll things can be beautiful and bright.

Taking a chance on life tis the right thing to do.

When it rains, open forth an umbrella;
The farmer rejoiceth and is glad for the irrigation of the soil.

To another these showers of blessings;
Symbolizes the heavens displaying it’s love for the earth beneath.

All things can be beautiful and bright.

ยฉ Lara Rose 2016

Live. Love. Shine.


Adam & Eve: War of the sexes?!

Return from Planet Zolga

To comment or not to comment on the sudden African American single, strong independent women issue!!

Having listened to both sides of the arguments, I will conclude by quoting a few things and posing some questions.

First to address the hyper christian women who constantly bully other women into submission:

“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, …”

This is part one of the verse that gets quoted or misquoted!!

But wait in part two it is written:

…as it is fit in the Lord.” (Col 3:18 KJV)

Implying as it is fit, or when applicable or to put bluntly there will be times that “submission” will not be fitting to do!!


For those who constantly brand this simplistic notion of Adam and Eve out of context, and utilize it as a subjugation tool;

And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Gen 2:18 KJV
And thus seems to paint Eve as merely created to be a “help meet” or “helper” or “domestic”ย  or “slave” .

And as the years went by Eve becomes just a door mat to be walked over by Adam, abused, to service his biological needs (to quote the biological paternal contributor) speak only when spoken to, etc, etc!

Just because it was not good for a man to be alone?!

I concluded that;

Adam & Eve had privilege! Adam needing Eve or vice versa was never intended for subjugation of Eve or women or womankind.”

Conversely, on the general subject of submission, it is also written in 1 Peter 5:5 KJV

Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility....”

This makes no distinction between the sexes, no hierarchy and equal submission between men and women!


I also have a few questions;

Seriously, what is it exactly we are “helping” men with?

Why is it assumed men are the only ones who need help?

If, women are the “weaker” vessel, why are we not entitled to any help?

Why are women classed as the “weaker” vessel yet we have to help men, the “stronger” vessel?

Isn’t it odd that the “weaker” vessel has to help the “stronger”? Selah!

Why do we think that women have only started to be strong in modern times? (History demonstrates countless women who had no choice but to rise up and take up new roles when for example men had gone to war)

Why should a strong woman threaten any man? Gosh, the weakest man is after all still going to be stronger than the strongest woman?!

I can’t believe that someone has set up a “wife” school! ๐Ÿ˜Š OMG! And yes it’s not free to go to! And ironically targets financially independent strong women who can afford to pay for these courses!!! Hum?!

So where is the equivalent. “husband” school?

Why is the responsibility of the union between a man and woman solely with the woman?

For crying out loud, seriously why are women still being blamed for broken relationships or made to feel bad about being single?! Men don’t get harassed about this!

Why have some women decided to also blame women?!

On a very serious note, when will men be held responsible for anything?

Adam blamed Eve in the beginning so no change there!!

And by the way, why is a model for married persons been applied to single persons?!! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

Flipping heck, if you’re single, enjoy, if you’re married enjoy too!!

To quote Sex And The City;

Maybe some women aren’t meant to be tamed. Maybe they just need to run free till they find someone just as wild to run with them.”

Women, repowered, stay strong and don’t be bullied back into abusive, toxic, non-nourishing relationships!

I feel some of the women attacking other women are probably threatened by strong independent women because we raise the bar!!

As we learn to love ourselves, be assertive and boost our self esteem, let us not be distracted by naysayers!! Stay strong and;

Live. Love. Shine!!

ยฉ Lara Rose 2016

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